1: Think holding that grudge is only hurting them? Here's who it's really hurting... 2: Your peace. You haven't had a full night of rest since it happened. 3: Your relationships. Bitterness toward one person leaks out on everyone else. 4: Your prayers. Scripture says unforgiveness creates a ceiling on your prayer life. 5: Your joy. You can't fully enjoy today when you're still living in that moment. 6: Your testimony. People are watching how you handle the hard things. 7: The cost of unforgiveness is too high. It's time to let it go.

Don't fight the person God is trying to make peace with.

The beginning of strife is like letting out water, so quit before the quarrel breaks out. - Proverbs 17:14

It doesn't matter if they apologized. Forgive them anyways.