God has put the very word you need on the lips of someone at church. Make sure you're in community so you can hear it.
Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters. - 1 John 3:16
May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had. - Romans 15:5
(crossed out) Fake friends. Conditional love. Acquaintances. Frenemies. (crossed out) Godly community.
That there be no divisions among you, but that you be perfectly united in mind and thought. - 1 Corinthians 1:10
As we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who are of the household of faith. - Galatians 6:10
Acknowledge those who work hard among you, who care for you in the Lord and who admonish you. - 1 Thessalonians 5:12
Treat younger men as brothers, older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity. - 1 Timothy 5:2