Living for God means surrendering your actions and the outcomes of those actions.
Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. - Colossians 3:12
"A humble person is more likely to be self-confident...a person with real humility knows how much they are loved." - Cornelius Plantinga
Jesus cared more about meeting shepherds than meeting kings