Speak the truth in love
As a bridegroom rejoices over his bride, so will your God rejoice over you. - Isaiah 62:5b
Communicate with your spouse. They need to hear (1) your love. (2) your support. (3) your concerns. (4) your hopes. (5) your heart.
"Away in a manger, no crib for a bed, the little Lord Jesus laid down his sweet head."